This is why you dont gain respect

Have you ever found yourself not receiving respect of the people around you?

If so, you’re not alone, feeling like you're not receiving the respect you

deserve can be incredibly disheartening. It can leave you feeling isolated,

undervalued, and frustrated.

Many of us have faced similar challenges at some point in our lives. It's a

universal struggle that transcends age, gender, and background.

It's important to recognize that your feelings are valid and worthy of

acknowledgment. No one should ever feel disregarded or diminished in their

interactions with others. It's natural to crave respect and recognition for your

contributions, your talents, and your worth as an individual.

Now, here’s the thing, If you constantly feel this way, don't get upset but

rather try to reflect, and ask better questions like the following:

1. What can I do to earn respect rather than demand it?

Respect is earned, not demanded. Focus on demonstrating integrity, competence,

and reliability in your actions. How can you show others that you are worthy of

their respect through your words and deeds? Before others pay respect to you, it

should come first from within.

2. Am I surrounding myself with people who value and uplift me?

Sometimes, the issue may not be with you, but with the company you keep. Are you

surrounding yourself with people who value and uplift you? Are there toxic

relationships that need to be reevaluated or let go of?

This issue actually stems from the principle “You Attract What You Are”.

The Law Of Attraction can be seen throughout history, believed to have been

taught to people by the immortal Buddha: “What you have become is what you have

thought.” There is an age-old belief among spiritualists that you draw into your

life what you put out.

Referring to the above principle, people have different frequencies, energy, and

vibrations. There are people with high frequencies: happy individuals who love

and value themselves, people who induce positive responses in others.

When you respect yourself, people with similar vibe and frequency will feel

that, and they will be drawn to you like a magnet. Consequently, you'll feel

respected and valued in the process. By recognizing and honoring your own value,

you attract positive energy and cultivate relationships that reflect your worth.

This principle holds true even in other aspects of life, such as finance.

On the contrary, if you don't respect and value yourself, you are also sending

out the same vibe, and people with low frequencies, people with low value, who

are insecure and self-abandoning, will sense that and will be attracted to you

instead. In this way, you will feel more disrespect from the people around you

because people around you will mirror back to you the way you treat yourself.

It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you don't believe you deserve respect

and value, others will likely follow suit. People who are insecure themselves

may find comfort in being around someone who also lacks self-worth because it

validates their own feelings and beliefs.

This dynamic can lead to a cycle of feeling undervalued and disrespected. When

you don't value yourself, you may tolerate behavior from others that is

disrespectful or harmful. This further reinforces the belief that you don't

deserve better treatment, perpetuating the cycle.

To break this pattern, it's essential to start by recognizing and valuing your

own worth. This involves practicing self-care, setting boundaries, and

surrounding yourself with people who uplift and support you. By demonstrating

self-respect, you'll attract healthier relationships and cultivate a more

positive environment for yourself.

So, the next time you feel this, you know what to do.

-Cheers! Enrique

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